When people are feeling bad I always try to use metaphors to illustrate my point and today I’m going to share with you two unique metaphors that I have thought of to cope with self care and management – which is a really freaking important thing if you didn’t know.
Live like a Sim
Some of you may be aware of the very popular video game ‘Sims’ which is where you care for a virtual character known as a Sim and try to make them as successful in life as possible (unless you’re one of those people who prefer to drown their Sims in a tiny swimming pool or burn them in a shed) Anyway, in the game you have to make sure that all your Sim’s needs are met and this is represented by little bars in the corner of your screen.
(if you have no idea what I mean, I’ll insert a picture here)
Well, I think EA did a pretty good job in deciding the most important things for human/sim survival and I think if these things are not fulfilled in real life, there’s something wrong. Picture yourself as a Sim in the game and think to yourself, as a game player, what are my needs right now?
Are you hungry? Tired? Do you need to socialize more? Have you been alone all day?
Do something about it so you can fulfill your potential as a great Sim…. oh wait human.
Sometimes looking at things from a fresh perspective can make you realize what you have been neglecting. These are the basic things that are keeping you alive and I promise you, they are VITAL to your physical AND mental health. Now and again, picture the core Sim needs and question how full those little green bars are.
Lighting your candles
With this little metaphor, you’ve got loads of candles (yay!) and these candles are representing various elements of your life. Some of these candles are really important, they’re the big candles, the expensive ones and they are your core needs. But you’ve also got some little scented candles, which are fun, but will burn out quickly. Try to keep your core candles burning, because if they go out, then that’s really bad news. Whilst, enjoy your little scented candles, but accept their tiny candle deaths, because all good things must come to an end, but you must move on and enjoy your new candles, in order to keep the core ones burning.
For example, one of my big candles is my ‘hunger’ if this candle dies I’m starving. Bad news, obviously. One of my little candles is my ‘friendships’ for me PERSONALLY friendship is important, but I know that friends will come and leave throughout my life. It hurts, but I should never let this grief draw my attention away from keeping my hunger candle burning.
You can change up your scented candles, which should represent the little things in your life, but make sure to keep your big candles to the core needs, that should probably be the same as the ones I mentioned before in the Sim metaphor, but you can add a few extras if they’re REALLY REALLY REALLY important. The big candles are your life or death candles! Be honest with yourself!
It’s never really good to put a person as a big candle, because they may leave eventually. But you can definitely put ‘social’ to remind you that there are always new people to meet and there are always people there for you when you need it! I guarantee you that I will ALWAYS be there for you if you need anyone to talk to. Please don’t be anxious talking to me, my email is theinternethotel@yahoo.com if you need to chat!
I hope you enjoyed this post. I know these metaphors are silly and weird, but they really help me and maybe they will help you too! Take care of yourselves!
Thank you so much for reading,
Alex
This was such a great metaphor! Who knew a game could have so much meaning and be deep.Great post!💖
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Thank you so much! I know right, I hope it helps haha x
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You’re welcome! And I’m sure it will x
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That was a great metaphor! I’m kind of obsessed with the Sims Freeplay game on my phone right now, so this made a lot of sense!
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Ohhh I’m really glad! I love the Sims!
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Same!
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Great metaphore!!!
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Thank you so much!
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Nb
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Alex I love your posts!
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Oh my gosh, thank you so much!
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Thanks
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LOVED THIS! I love metaphors and things like that which represent important things. This was brilliant! xx
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Thank you so so so much Tash! Me too 🙂 xx
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Haha great post Alex! I used to be obsessed with Sims, and would literally play it 24/7 😉
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Me too! And thank you xx
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Um, I love The Sims! I’m 21 and still play the sims!
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There’s nothing wrong with that haha 😉
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Wonderful post! Loved the metaphor!
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Aw thank you so much!!
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You’re welcome!!
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This is such a great post, Alex! First I laughed at your Sims metaphor but you’re completely right! I feel that’s a thing we should apply to our lives. And probably my ‘Social’ bar is completely angrily red hahaha
thanks for sharing this! xx
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Aw thank you so much and I hope you can sort that out haha! Thank you xx
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This is freaking brilliant! Who knew Sims could be this meaningful? I will remember these metaphors the next time I have to set my priorities straight 🙂
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Oh my! You’re so clever. I never thought of that! These metaphors are freaking great. Love this post!
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Thank you so much! I’m not really haha, I just always think this way! Thank you for reading!
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Spot on life pro tips 😉 loved the metaphors 😀
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Thank you, I’m glad you thought they were good! X
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I CAN’T EVEN…NO WAYYY
You play the SIMS!! OMG, I’ve found you, finally never let me go
XD, what even
anyways great post! And lovee the metaphors 🙂 ahh, life like a sim could be so easy…
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I love the sims!!!! And thank you so much!
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YESSSS it’s awesome ! And you’re welcome!!
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hahaha I loved your metaphore
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Aw I’m glad, hope it helped!
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This metaphor has such a glorious core.Great work!
XX
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Thank you so so much xx
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Np!
xx
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I never pondered that a game can be used to see if your life is a OK or not. Maybe someday in the future there’ll be that status bar (like the Sims) right under our noses to make things easier what we’ve been missing to do. But of course, those are instincts I guess…
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It’s a very creative idea haha! And I know right, maybe I just think in a strange way 😛
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It’s a one strange, lame idea. Haha
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I kind of freaking love this metaphor. I used to be OBSESSED with the sims. I would seriously spend all day on my computer playing it. It’s funny and nice to imagine “needs” as a sims “needs”. Love the idea ❤
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Aw thank you so so so much. I’ve spent way too much time on sims haha, I don’t play it that often now, I miss it… 😦
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Haha me too
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I absolutely love the Sims analogy – I genuinely like to imagine my little green bars restoring when I have a nap or a snack or something, so can completely relate!
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Aw thank you so much and so do I haha!
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